Monday, May 3, 2010

RJA #14b: Application Project References

Copyright (1997-2207). Format for a friendly or personal letter. Retrieve May 1, 2010from Englishplus. http://englishplus.com/grammar/00000144.htm

Doyle, Alison. (2010). Character and Personal Reference Letters Requesting and Writing Character Reference Letters. About.com part of The New York Times Company. Retrieve May 1, 2010 from about.com. http://jobsearch.about.com/cs/references/a/character.htm

Farmington, Charles. (2006, October 26). Character reference. Retrieve May 1, 2010 from writting help-central. http://www.writinghelp-central.com/character-reference.html

Francis, Darlene. (2007, November 19). Sympathy letter. Retrieve May 1, 2010 from writting help-central. http://www.writinghelp-central.com/letter-of-sympathy.html

Hurley, Jason. (2008, August 12). Goodbye letter. Retrieved May 1, 2010 from writting help-central. http://www.writinghelp-central.com/goodbye-letter.html

RJA #14a: Application Project Progress Report

What it is about?
For the application project, I’m writing two or more personal letters to my friends and families. The topic is going to be on arranged marriage and love marriage, mostly favoring on arranged marriage. In the letters I want to find out more of why arranged marriage is better than love marriage and also give some of my ideas that I know or gained and write it to my friends who are mostly against arranged marriage.

What I have accomplished so far
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I already wrote a letter asking an advice on arranged marriage to my mother, since she was married to my father in arranged marriage. In the letter that I wrote to her, I asked about why she chose arranged marriage and asked to give some experience knowledge she got in arranged marriage. I also asked her to tell me more about the cons of love marriage and arranged marriage too.

What I still need to do
I still need to write a personal letter to my friends who are mostly on love marriage. Asked them to tell me why they prefer love to arrange marriage. I might also add some good points about arranged marriage to let them know that it isn’t really that bad. My letters are still short and need to write more. Then still need to work on my three hundred words essay on how I used my source to write my personal letters.

Thursday, April 22, 2010

RJA #13c: Application Project Example

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http://plays.about.com/od/oneactplaysandscenes/a/12angrypigs.htm
Explain where the sceneray is being held before the start of the story. The setting. The expression on the people face. Since the story doesnt show all the people names im going to name them as man 1, man 2, women 1, and women 2 just like the story from 12 angry pigs. In the beginning give a brief intro about the story. What people are doing in the scence.

RJA #13b: Application Project Plan

Im going to write a scene from a movie. The title of the movie is called "Unnale Unnale." In this scene the main characters are a man name Jhansi and woman name Sadha. They both are at their friends house to celebrate their friends wedding anniversary. While over there one of the guy in a white T-shirt starts an argument with a girl name pushpa about marriage as a joke. But soon the joke got into and big girl vs guy argument in marriage.

RJA #13a: Word Cloud

http://www.wordle.net/show/wrdl/1934853/Love_vs_arranged_marriage

Tuesday, April 13, 2010

RJA #10c: Ideas for the Application Project

  • Email a personal letters to my friends on my topic.
  • Thinking about writting a play, on the argument the two parties had about love and arranged marriage, that i saw.
  • News article about a girl who have to change her lifestyle because of the arranged marriage.
  • Editorial on the pressure the parents are putting on their kids about marriage

RJA #10b: Progress Report for Argumentative Paper

What i have accomplished
  1. Finished on my survey
  2. Found the percent on the divorce rate in different world
  3. Chose which side I would stand for

What I still need to do

  1. Have more than 3600 words
  2. organize my work
  3. Find more stuff on love marriage
  4. Do a personal interview with a married couple

RJA #10a: Annotated Bibliography, Part 1

Does The Prospect Of Arranged Marriage And Abuse Warrant Asylum In The US? By Warren Richey, Staff writer of The Christian Science Monitor/ March 23, 2007.

Story about a woman name Hong Ying Gao, who ran away from China to US. She wanted an asylum because she did not want to go back and live with her abusive husband, who paid $2,200 for her hand in marriage. The US Supreme Court that read Gao's case stated that she should be sent back in the other hand Second US Circuit Court of Appeals in New York back to differ.

Most Indians Find Their Life Partner By Letting Their Parents Choose. By Martin Bohn, Aug 31, 2009.

How the arranged marriages have changed. Now days, some parents post their child profiles on matrimonial website or the matrimonial ads. This time kids are allowed to have an opinion on whether to marry the person their parents do but still some are still are not able to do that. It usually the parents that work the hardest, by arranging meetings with the other family, dating service, and many more.

Did a survey of my own.

It is about whether people choose love marriage or arranged marriage. The age range was from seventeen and up. The things that did not matter was the race, color and sexes. I was not sure about the effect the religion or culture had on it so i did not ask the people. More than eighty percent chose love marriage, second highest did not care and the least prefer arranged marriage. I did this survey in US.

Monday, April 12, 2010

RJA #11: Annotated Bibliography, Part 2

The Culture of Arranged Marriages in India by Noreen. Last update: Mar. 13, 2009.
The writer Noreen talks about the marriage life in India, which prefer to have arranged marriage rather than love marriage, that usually occurs in the western countries. He also indicate that arranged marriages are not like forced marriages because the boy and a girl gets the chance to meet with each other and decide. The writer point of view is that people who are for love marriage should let go of their personal feelings/emotion and look through the arranged marriage people point of view and find out that arranged marriages is not really that bad thing.

The psychologywiki, The background of the article: Arranged Marriage. Made and edited by Dr. Joe Kiff, Dec. 10, 2009.
Gives about a brief introduction about arranged marriage and the places that are still doing it. What parents look for in that kind of marriage, like money, background and horoscope depending on the religion. Also there are different types of arranged marriage in different level such as force marriage, traditional marriage, modern arranged marriage, modern arranged marriage with courtship, and introduction only marriage. Only for traditional and force marriage, the kids arent able to choice their own partner.

The Divorce Rate in the world: by Nita, Tags: Divorce, Relationships, Singles, apr. 4, 2007.
Shows the percentage of divorce rate in different countries. The lowest was 1.1 percent which was India. The writer believe that the divorce rate of india was even smaller than 1.1 percent and she suspects that the cause was from educated females, who leave their husband because of the abuse they get.

Fox News, Because Mom said so: Are arranged marriage the next big trend? By Hollie Mckay. Friday, June 29, 2007.
Wrote that the old arranged marriage is different than modern day arranged marriage . The new arranged marriages let you choose your partner but the parents still have the too look through the background of their kids chosen partner. Sloane Veshinski, a hollywood-based marriage and family therapist says that parents are the best choice to choose a partner for their kids since they know best what you like, what is your personalites, and many

Is Arranged Marriage Really Any Worse Than Craigslist? By Anita jain Published May 21, 2005.
She is an indian woman who talks about her experience she seen and been. Firstly she found out that the girls are usually the one that sacrifice their life to live with their husband. She was used to the point, where her dad was the one putting more effort than her and even her dad going on a dinner date with complete strangers that wanted her hand in marriage. She also seen, that the elders are putting pressures on the womens about finding someon than what they have accomplish in their life.

Monday, March 29, 2010

RJA #9c: Presentation Plan

Talk about the definition of arranged marriage and love marriage.
Talk about the pros and cons of each.
Talk about the survey I did, on how many percentage people choice arranged or love marriage
Some more facts on the love and arranged marriage form the news and website and also from the books.
Post a video of the effects that an arranged marraige can cause.

RJA #9b: Argument

Thesis 1: Having an arranged marriage, strips you away from your freedom of choice. Parents or matchmaker choosing for you is not a best idea. Because it is you, who is marrying and not your parents.

Thesis 2: You want to be with someone whom you love and feel comfortable with for the rest of your marriage life.

Thesis 3: In arranged marriage, there is a high risk that you might not like the person, your parents or matchmakers chose for you.

Thesis 4: Interreacting with different people from different countries, can make you look at their point of view, learn new things, and socializing is also part of your life you need and do everyday. There might be less diversity between people from different background and less racism.

Counterargument 1: Arranged marriage have less divorce rate than love marriage. Arranged marriage saves more marriages.

Counterargument 2: Because of the divorce rate, parents still thinks that arranged marriage is better choice for their kids. Because parents goes through a great deal on finding right person that can take care of you.

Counterargument 3: People who is against love marriage believe that, in love marriage you already your partner and because of that, there is less communication between you and your parnter. Thus you might get bored with your spouse and ends up divorcing.

RJA #9a: Thesis Statement

Research Question: Love vs Arranged Marriage: Having an arranged marriage really better than love marriage?

Thesis: Research shows that an arranged marriage have less divorce rate, and save marraiges than love marriage, because it takes time and consideration for the parents and matchmakers to decide who is right for you. But that is taking away your rights. People wants to be with someone they love and be comfortable with, and not some stranger that someone else chose for you. Interreacting with other people, is also part of life that people needs to learn and also by talking to people with different background, you can learn alot and there will be less diversity between different races. With that, love marriage is much better than arranged marriage.

Monday, March 15, 2010

RJA #7b: Field Research Suggestions

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http://holden1013.blogspot.com/2010/02/rja-6c-field-research-options.html#comment-form

RJA #7a: Evaluation of Sources

Reference article:
http://www.newworldencyclopedia.org/entry/Arranged_marriage
An encyclopedia about arranged marriage. The partners are chosen by parents, community elders, matchmakers, or religious leaders in order to help young people to find the right person to marry. The way they find the right person differs due to different religions and cultures. But nowdays, the partners are choosing their own spouse without the help of their parents(love marriage) because of that, most of the marriages get a divorce and because of that parents think having and arranged marriage is better than love marriage. This article also gives a small brief about different marriage, such as child marriag, political marriage, and many more.

Book:
http://astore.amazon.com/planet-20/detail/1576079872
The author of this book, Marriage Customs of the World: From Henna to Honeymoons, is George Monger. It is about wedding traditions going around the world and their customs. This book is arranged in alphabetical order. He also describes traditions for getting betrothed, meeting the relatives, running a proper stag party, performing the ceremony, cavorting at the reception, and conducting the honeymoon that could induce cold feet even in the most hot-blooded.

Periodical article:
http://www.nytimes.com/2009/06/07/fashion/07love.html?_r=1&tntemail1=y&pagewanted=all
First Comes marriage, this article was written by Farahad Zama and published in June, 5 2008. He tells about how he fell in love with his wife, Sameera after their marraige were arranged by his mother and Sameera Uncle. After having two kids, he thinks how different his marraige was compared to the American society and thinking how his two sons are gonig to get married since they are adapting to American life.

Website:
The title, Arranged Marriages and Dowry. Talks about Marraige life in India, and how huge it is, and because divorce are not accepted among most Indian, the parents will carefully choose for the right one for you. Some desirable traits they looked for in both male and female are: matching levels of education, matching cultures, close parental cities, matching religions, and matching vegetarians/non-vegetarians. Then it talks about the dowry system which is when the husband dies and the wife of the parents have to pay good amount of money just to see their daughter well taken care of.

http://zakta.com/zakta/view_1_1162_3107_Arranged_Marraige

Internet Research Project

Friday, March 12, 2010

RJA #6c: Field Research Options

Well for my love vs arranged marriage, i did a survey on it. I asked the people whether they prefer love or arranged marriage, their gender, their ethnic, and their reason for their choices. Well the people I had asked asians (nepali, vietnames, chinese, korean, japanese), black, white, and hipanic and so far all of them prefer love marriage rather than arranged marriage. Some of their reasons were:
Freedom of choice
Being with someone you love

RJA #6b: Social Media and Multimedia

Social Media search tools: addictomatic
keywords used: Love or arranged marriage
Date of Search: Mar. 12, 2010


Social Media search tools: Blogged
Keywords used: Arranged marriage
Date of Search: Mar. 12, 2010
Results: 1-30 of 144
Search strategies: Search post

Mulitmedia search tools: Blinkx
Keywords used: Arrange Marriage or love marriage
Date of Searched: Mar. 12, 2010
Video posted: Feb. 27, 2009
Views: 6,518

RJA #6a: Websites

Search engine: cuil
keywords used: Arranged marriage
Date Seacrched: Mar. 12, 2010
Results: 131,969

Meta and multi Search engine: Atnio
Keywords used: Love marriage vs arranged marriage
Date Searched : Mar. 12,2010
Results: 1 -10
Number of hits : 60

Directories: Academic Info
Keywords used: Arranged marriage
Date Searched: Mar. 12, 2010
Hits: 9

Invisible Web Search Tools: IncyWincy
Keywords used: Arranged marriage
Date Searched: Mar. 12, 2010
Results 1-10 of 53,905

Other Search Tools: Zhift
Keywords used: Love marriage or arranged marriage
Date Searched: Mar. 12, 2010
Results: 1-10 of 90000

Thursday, February 25, 2010

Title of the article - Debate: Arranged marriage
Title of reference work - Should arranged marriages be outlawed?
Date of publication - 11:28, 23 November 2009

Resource searched - Debatepedia
Keywords used - Arranged marriage
Date of search - 02/25/2010
Number of hits - 1



Thursday, February 18, 2010

RJA #5b: Periodical Articles

Name(s) of author(s) - Akhmadeeva, L. & Kusch, J.

Title of article - Bitter fruits of arranged marriage: a case study of North Cyprus.

Title of periodical - Sex Education

Volume and issue number (if available) - Vol. 9 Issue 3

Date - Aug2009

Pages on which article appears - p307-318

Resource searched - EBSCOhost

Keywords used - Arranged marriage

Date of search - 02/25/2010

Number of hits - 423

Relevance of hits (on a scale of 1 to 5) - 1-20

Name(s) of author(s) - Enright, Máiréad

Title of article - Choice, Culture and the Politics of Belonging: The Emerging Law of Forced and Arranged Marriage

Title of periodical - Modern Law Review

Volume and issue number (if available) - Vol. 72 Issue 3

Date - May2009

Pages on which article appears - p331-359

Resource searched - EBSCOhost

Keywords used - Arranged marriage

Date of search - 02/25/2010

Number of hits - 423

Relevance of hits (on a scale of 1 to 5) - 21-40

RJA #5a: Books

Author - George Peter Monger
Title - Marriage Customs of the World: From Henna to Honeymoons
Type of Material - Book (Print, Microform, Electronic, etc.)
Place of publication - Santa Barbara, Calif
Publisher - ABC-CLIO
Date of publication - c2004
LC Classification - GT2690 .M65 2004
OCLC No. - 56064942

Resource searched - Auraria Library
Keywords used - arranged marriage
Date of search - 2/18/2010
Number of hits - 39
Relevance of hits - 1-12



Editors - Raeann R. Hamon, Bron B. Ingoldsby
Title - Mate selection across cultures
Publisher - Sage Publications
Place of publication - Thousand Oaks, Calif
Date of publication - c2003
LC Classification - HQ801 .M236 2003
Contents - The mate selection process in the United States / Bron B. Ingoldsby -- "It's better in the Bahamas" : from relationship initiation to marriage / Raeann R. Hamon -- Mate selection preferences and practices in Ecuador and Latin America / Paul L. Schvaneveldt -- Mate selection in Trinidad and Tobago : a multireligious, multicultural perspective / Winston Seegobin and Kristen M. Tarquin -- Tradition and change in family and marital processes : selecting a marital partner in Ghana / Baffour K. Takyi -- Connecting generations : Kamba and Maasai paths to marriage in Kenya / Stephan M. Wilson, Lucy W. Ngige, and Linda J. Trollinger -- Love, courtship, and marriage from a cross-cultural perspective : the upper middle class Egyptian example / Bahira Sherif-Trask -- Couple formation in Israeli Jewish society / Shulamit N. Ritblatt -- Marriage in Turkey / Nuran Hortasu -- Couple formation practices in Spain / J. Roberto Reyes -- The development of intimate relationships in the Netherlands / Manfred H.M. van Dulmen -- Mate selection in contemporary India : love marriages versus arranged marriages / Nilufer P. Medora -- The transition of courtship, mate selection, and marriage in China / Yan R. Xia and Zhi G. Zhou -- Multiplicity of paths to couple formation in Japan / Colleen I. Murray and Naoko Kimura.

Resource searched - Auraria Library
Keywords used - arranged marriage
Date of search - 2/18/2010
Number of hits - 39
Relevance of hits - 1-12

Monday, February 15, 2010

RJA #4c: Research Question Check

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http://dickeng1020.blogspot.com/2010/02/rja3b-rja3c.html#comment-form

RJA# 4b: Search Strings

+love OR +arrange marriage
+Divorce rate NEAR america
+love +marriage
+"love marriage" +"arrange marriage"
+love marriage -same sex
+"Arrange marriage" NOT "Forced Marriage"
+"divorce rate" +"arranged marriage"

RJA #4a: Keywords–Using the FOREST LOG

Love or Arrange marriage

FOrms: Love, Loves, Loved
Arrange, Arranges, Arranged
Marriage, Marriages, Marriaged

RElated, ST: Love- Heart, Valentine, Red, Lust, Emotional
Arrange- Prepared, Set, Schedule, Fix
Marriage- Couple, Commitment, Equal

LOG: Directory > Society and Culture > Relationships > Marriage > Arranged Marriage
Directory > Society and Culture > Relationships > Romance

Monday, February 8, 2010

RJA #3c: Research Question

  • Do you think it is still ok to have an arranged marriage?
  • Do you think an arranged marriage is as same as force marraige?
  • Is having an arrange marriage really saves you from getting an divorce?
  • An arrange marriage really denies your freedom of choice?

RJA #3a: Research Topic Exploration

I went to google to begin my research on arranged marriage and love marriage. First i went to wikipedia to get some general ideas about both of them. Then I went to different links which was posted in the wikipedia website. Each of them have their pros and cons to it. I also searched on delicious to check on what other people have posted about love or arranged marriage and their thought about it. Debatepedia helped me alot on the pros and the cons of each marraige.
Down below are some of the website i went to and it is also posted on my delicious account.


http://delicious.com/pranai_subba21
http://www.yourtango.com/20085574/what-arranged-marriage-can-teach-us.html
http://www.newworldencyclopedia.org/entry/Arranged_marriage
http://ezinearticles.com/?The-Reality-of-Arranged-Marriages&id=606
http://wiki.idebate.org/en/index.php/Debate:_Arranged_marriage#Marriage_stability:Can_arranged_marriages_make_more_successful_marriages.3F

RJA #3b: Research Topic Focus

  • An arranged marraiage have 5-7% divorce rate where in USA its has about 50% divorce rate.
  • In arranged marriage, family decide on your marriage whereas its different in love marraige.
  • To denied an arranged marriage is as seen as disrespect toward the family.
  • In arranged marriage, it is usually a bond between two families rather than the realtionship with the couple.
  • Love can grow out of arranged marriage.
  • In some culture, arranged marriage is chosen by the matchmakers, community elders, or a religious elders.
  • There are also many different types of marriage such as child marraige, exchange marraige, diplomatic marraige and many more.

Monday, February 1, 2010

RJA #2b: Research Topic

Marriage! When you hear this word what comes into your mind? I used to picture it there being a dad, a mom, and their little kids, with a pet dog name Rex. But that’s not all marriage is about is it? I chose to do my research on love and arrange marriage. Because where I’m from it’s usually an arranged marriage but here in U.S most citizens usually married with their partner for love and sometimes they don’t even married but just live with each other as boyfriend and girlfriend. That makes me want to think why it’s so different in U.S. than in from where I am from.
Marriages have been going on for a very long time, but there are always different reasons behind each marriage. Some married for love, others married for family business for money, political marriage to gain power, or just because of their class. There had been a lot of arguments on the pros and cons on arrange or love marriage. People say having an arrange marriage usually last forever because they will get to know each other during their married life but it can also end in disaster because there is a risk you might not get along. For love marriage, people married each other because they feel comfortable and love each other but it also have its bad side to it such as you might get bored with your partner because you already know too much of each other. I know for the fact is arrange marriage is usually chosen by your parents depending on what’s going to be good for their child and not considering about whether they like each other.
In my country there have been a lot of arrange marriage going on for the fact that my dad and mom got married but my dad said their marriage was love and arrange marriage, but judging from my parents relationship, it looks like they don’t know much about each other anymore and because of that I think for my parent it was mostly an arrange marriage for both of them. Now days I usually here this word love and arrange marriage together but, is there really such thing as an love and arrange marriage or is it still love or arrange marriage?

Thursday, January 28, 2010

Arrange or Love marriage

RJA #2a: Possible Topics

Thursday, January 21, 2010

Scholarly and academic interests

  • Metabolism
  • Computer Science: Difference between Hardware and Software
  • Plantar fascia
  • Arrange marriage or Love marriage
  • Height